shes autistic and masks way too fucking much. granted shes in college in my shitty au but its still gonna be exhausting and harmful one way or another.
tama doesnt exactly understand stuff like that too well on account of being fed misinformation she's trying to unlearn, but she's very much trying to be supportive.
source for why i came to this conclusion?: trust me bro shes autistic her gf told me /j